Get rid of the sense of guilt if you want to fulfill yourself!
After some time I return to write on my site, today we will talk about the Sense of Guilt that involves us all, and together with the betrayal, it is the hardest topic; the aim is not to be exhaustive in this sense, but to give way to a spontaneous inner reflection.
What is meant by Sense of Guilt? – Essentially feeling bad when we fail to meet the needs of others, or do not do something that others expect of us.
Our Society has been based for centuries on the Sense of Guilt, in order to enslave us and weak; the striking example is that many people fail to allow themselves to rejoice because others suffer.
1st node_ this mentality underlies a thought such as: “with my sadness I can alleviate the suffering of others”, or “but if I change and I succeed, how will others around me react?” for example in personal growth paths or psychological therapy: “how will others react if I start thinking more about myself and less about the rest, will they think I am selfish?”.
This attitude leads us to live an existence in which; “we choose to remain in the blackmail of the other’s wounds, with the excuse of not making him suffer, we sacrifice our fulfillment as people and the possibility of making our own path. “
In healthy people, what outwardly may seem an act of goodness and sacrifice, is actually the presence of an immense Ego who does not recognize that the other has a soul like ours with a path to take.
At this point we either give up our life because the other has wounds, or with great humility we ask: “I’m sorry for causing you pain, but I have to go and follow my own path”, at that point aware of not having never acted with the intent to harm someone, it will be up to the other person to choose whether to use the experience that caused him suffering to evolve, or continue as if nothing had happened by taking responsibility for his actions.
If we are healthy people and have no intent to harm and someone suffers from our actions, it is because our wounds co-vibrate, this interaction is making us grow: “We suffer because others touch our wounds.”
The more I love myself and put my life at the center, the less I will need the crumbs of love from others, because, I will already receive love from myself before that from others.
The more I follow my call and the passion of my life, as long as I know what it is, the less Sense of Guilt I will feel, because I will have understood that I can do nothing about the life of the other.
Taking responsibility for our life and our soul means getting out of the blackmail of the mind and society, if we want to create the New World; which is upon us and is asking us to open ourselves to it, we must learn to open ourselves to our Soul.
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